Nov 27 2009
SOAP BOX: Stuffingly Starving America
Thanksgiving.
The truly ‘American’ Holiday.
One we come together with family and friends, consuming 7-10 course meal by which we gorge ourselves into carbohydrate oblivion, practically having a food coma bringing some of us closer to our first heart attack or stroke.
How true a way we celebrate each other as Americans. Afterall, aren’t we the nation of excessive everything? We set the standard for it, those who follow our example, take it to extremes with no morality attached to the reasoning for it. Call it the ass following the horse thinking it’s a horse too, the two are distinguishably different yet because they are similar in form, and the ass thinks it can mimic the horse. Take that for what you will. Thanksgiving, should you celebrate it, is about celebrating friendships & families, bonds that tie us together as Americans. If it were only about family, the ass would never eat with the horse.
In thinking about what I am most thankful for on this holiday, or at any time of year, is the life of one who can no longer celebrate this holiday in the traditions it is so heavily steeped in. As with many, you might know someone who is hooked to a feeding tube because of some illness or disorder that prevents them from being able to ingest food like the rest of us. Their view of food is nothing like any one of us will ever experience unless you go have a tube put into your stomach and try it on for size. I, for one, am not going to volunteer for that.
We worry about people who are on the brink of starvation when we have such a huge bounty to forage. Tube feeders, those who cannot even forage, are truly ’starving’. Most of them cannot eat anything. Some are lucky enough to eat limited types of foods, maybe no roughage. Roughage being almost all sweet fruits and vegetables of every variety. Their diet may consist of scrambled egg whites and anything made with pasty white flour, consisting of no flavor, no basis in which to even eat it, but the very act of chewing, is a blessing to satisfy the act which the brain craves for the body. If there were any instance where that person would be denied access to their daily tube feedings, they would, starve to death by means of their body using up what it has.
Do we feel pity knowing there are others who starve in America? Or anywhere else for that matter. It makes me wonder because of how wasteful most of us are. I have no real statement or answer for that, although there are many that speculate the generosity that Americans have. If it were your last meal, any and every piece of food would never be taken for granted.
I tried to put myself in their shoes this holiday. To know that they will not feel the satisfaction of having sweet potatoes on their tongue, or the feeling of fullness you get after you are done with the meal(or any meal for that matter).
Those people end up, with their families, watching them eat, or sitting in another room because maybe the act of eating is too much for them to watch since they are denied the pleasure…they end up, alone in their starvation. See- people who end up on feeding tubes, should they not be removed (for some reason), limit their lives, by starving their bodies, oh so slightly, enough to take away the very vitality that makes them a whole person, their average life span is 5 years at most. The arguement for that is, well, they would not have a life if it weren’t for the tube. But for many who end up on one, and are still on it a year later, they wonder, what was it for?
If you know someone who is in that situation, give to them the thing that they truly can be thankful for, give of yourselves to them. The ‘Bounty’ for them is just being here a little longer, not wanting to go just yet.
Be there for them, be there for whatever time there is, the time is now. Don’t let their illness be the line in the sand, be part of their recovery to being whole again, no matter what whole becomes.
Next time you take a bite, think about what if that was your last one, would you appreciate it more?
Would you be thankful for the bounty you could eat?
No one knows the feel of the last bite better than the one who has to live by the stomach tube. ![]()
Today I am taking my ‘mindless whining’ in a new direction. Enough complaining about parking. Obviously there are many in Seattle, who either live there or work there or have interests there, who love to pay for parking…more power to them! Tax away! Raise the price of parking! Charge the crap out of it! Private lots should charge $15 bucks a day instead of $10 because the party will not last as long, like gas prices, get it while you can. When someone charges you $10 for a hot dog at the stadium, don’t mindlessly whine, take it like a man and pay for it. Like one guy said, who’s gonna pay for free parking…the real estate is worth so much more than that. To them, it has nothing to do with aesthetics or being more user friendly of a city, it has all to do with the bottom line and how much is it worth to them or their constituents, who gives a crap if anyone likes it? Don’t get me wrong, I used to live in the ‘big’ city, I know what being surrounded by over 6 million people is like. Way different than Seattle. Seattle is a great city to visit or maybe live in. Keep up the good work, charge for parking everywhere, why bother visiting Seattle? Drive north 20 minutes to Alderwood, spend the cha ching on shoes instead.

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